Words Of Wisdom

You are not able to change the past, the present and the future are the only things in your power. What you choose to do with them is your option, understanding the present leaves no room for regret of the past. Knowing what you can control and taking action is a map to your life.. give your life no reason not to work in your favor. Don't feel sorry for yourself, stand up and take action if you want something to change. Be real, don't pretend to like something just because you think if you say you don't someone will judge you. Be yourself, being unique and different is what makes life interesting. We are all different and that is what makes each one of us so great. Surround yourself with people who make you happy, the ones who bring you down are doing it because they can't control their own thought process. They can't stand up and take control of their actions and thoughts enough to make them happier. They have no control of their lives, they live in misery...you understand why people, say "misery loves company". Whoever they are they will bring you down, they hate that you are remotely happy. Your friends should support you, love you and make you happier, they should bring light into your life instead of darkness. They should comfort you and give you praise...being selfish in a friendship is not acceptable. Gain an understanding of yourself and the people around you. This is your life and you of all people are the only one to control it. If you let people affect you in harmful or verbal ways, it can change who you are and who you strive to be. Don't forget yourself. Listening takes more than your ears, it takes heart...if you expect people to listen to you, make sure you do the same. I don't regret anything I have ever done, not one thing. I have learned from any "mistake" I have ever made, I have gained a respect for myself in knowing that if I want something to change I can change it myself. I have control of my life, that is the best part about it.

J