Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Why Men Marry Bitches


"Why Men Marry Bitches" a book by Sherry Argov

"There are 2 types of woman; those who want power in the world, and those who want power in bed." and there is a third type, the bitch...she gets both.
This book isn't about how to trap your man by being a bitch don't let the title fool you, it's simply suggesting that the "bitch" is a strong powerful woman who knows: what she wants, who she is and what she will and will NOT put up with. In the introduction of this book she makes that clear.. I read a little further today and it was interesting some of the things that seem to hold true in every relationship.
  • Men hear what they see
  • Men love knowing there is a small part of you they can't get into
  • In romance there is nothing more attractive then a woman who has pride and dignity in who she is

Regardless of you or him not wanting to play a game, it will happen or you will both be bored out of your minds. You can't give it all up front or he will think you are desperate (unless of course you are, then well there is no hope) and he can't either or you will think he is obsessed with you. There is a certain point where being all over each other will be okay, it's just a matter of getting to know the person with you while holding true to who you are. Don't be agreeable, that's boring..there is no way you both love the shins, painting sunsets and jogging in place... Don't be ridiculous. If you have something to say, say it. If he isn't all about it or rejects you for it, well that was you and clearly that is something he doesn't want. So move on.. at least you won't have to let go of your love of shitty horror movies because he told you he'd never watch them with you. So I guess being a bitch isn't such a bad thing..

J

3 comments:

Missy said...

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Jessica Hughes & Stefanie Hillman said...

Missy, I adore you. I'm so glad you found me...

Victoria. Vlasova. said...

I do love the book!It's worth reading!It helped me to escape divorce!